I'd like to respond to this post as well as to the one about waiter complaints, because, for me, they're connected. My top dining disappointments have been at many if not all of the top-rated restaurants in America....and it's not about the food. Instead, it's related to problems with the wait-staff or, more to the point, problems with the way the wait-staff have been trained. We've already heard on this post and on others, complaints about service where waiters either 'disappear' a/o one is unable to get their attention. Particularly galling is when a waiter attends to customers at a neighboring table and then quickly returns to the kitchen or wherever without even looking to see if you are trying to get his attention. And then there are the waiters that congregate at a wait-station and converse with each other without looking around to see if anyone is trying to get their attention. At the risk of being accused of being a 'Eurosnob', these kinds of service problems rarely occur at the top-rated European restaurants. Typically in these establishments there are one or two waiters standing in each dining area, looking around at all the tables all the time, to see if a customer is trying to get his attention or, even without the latter, to see if a table needs more water, wine, etc. And, when serving one table, the waiter always looks at the neighboring tables to see if anything is needed. This approach to customer service is rarely, if ever, seen at even the top-rated American restaurants. Even if restaurants here can't afford to hire adequate numbers of wait-staff, there is no excuse for the poor training where waiters are allowed to serve one table in their section and leave the area without looking at all the other tables under their jurisdiction to see if anything is needed, e.g., more water,
wine, bread, butter, sauce, napkins, etc.... Anyway, that's my top dining disappointment at almost all the fine restaurants here in the states.