I am sorry, but I have to disagree with all of you. Gary Danko is a great restaurant and Gary is a great chef, but what is the point of comparing restaurants this way....they are two such different experiences.
I have a feeling some bad behavior was involved here. Thomas Keller is a very bright, introspective man, and he would never act rudely towards a customer unless really provoked. The time I ate at French Laundry and the times I have recommended it to others, we all agree its not somewhere to eat every day, or even every year, but it is a gastronomical experience beyond any restaurant I have tried, as well as superb service, even for the "little guy" like me. But then again, I treat restaurant workers respectfully.